Monday 10/05/09
I had my mind made up that I was not going to teach school today unless I felt better in the morning. This morning I was able to get out of bed so I thought I'd try to teach class. I was doing a little better but Laina had been up coughing all night and wouldn’t get out of bed so Chris took the other kids to school and I stayed home with her. As soon as they left she came downstairs and said, “Mommy, I just needed a little more sleep but I’m ready to go to school now.” We spent a little time hanging out before we finally went into school. It was a miserable couple of hours but I survived. Even the kids in the class said that I looked white. When class was done, I collected my kids and decided to have our family home evening activity be a trip to the hospital. The idea of going to a doctor is the last thing that I want to do especially in a 3rd world country in a language that I am not confident in! But.... I figure if I want to be able to get on an airplane with 4 kids I better get better!
So, off to the hospital we go . We took two vehicles so that we could get checked out and then Chris could go back to work and I'd take the kids home. Wishful thinking!
We walked in the hospital not knowing what to expect. The waiting room was full of people in indigenous clothing. When we tried to check in, they just took us straight back to an exam room. We had a guy come in and start the process of figuring out what was wrong with us. He scheduled a pediatrician to come check out the kids and an internal medicine doctor to come look at me. After a while they took me off to another room by myself where a lady doctor that spoke English came and checked me out. Her English was choppy but understandable and found out that I had about a 104 temperature and possibly pneumonia. She said that I needed to get some chest x-rays done and then left. I sat in the little tiny room by myself forever! Each time I heard little pitter patters going down the hall I’d get excited thinking it was Chris and the kids but it never was. I finally realized that it was the short little nurses running down the hall!! After a while a nurse came and took me back to the first room where Chris and the kids were. The pediatrician had checked out all four kids and gave them a ton of prescriptions. They all had the same crud and apparently a lot of kids from the school have been seen for the same thing. The kids were done and ready to go but I still had to get my flu test results, get my chest x-rays etc. Somebody came and got me to go get the x-rays but Chris couldn’t go with me. I was put in a crazy room with an x-ray technician. I don’t know what he said but I heard a word that sounded like metal and he pointed to the top half of my body. It clicked that I had an underwire and I probably should take it off before the x-ray!! He showed me a bathroom and there was a gown hanging up. I wasn’t sure if I was supposed to put it on or not. I sure love this guessing game. Apparently I guessed right when I just removed the metal and he was able to do the x-rays.
Back with Chris and the kids, I couldn’t even sit up anymore. I laid down on the couch and started drowsing off. The next thing I know, they are saying that I don’t have the flu but I have pneumonia and I need to stay in the hospital for a few days. UGH!! Seriously, what could be worse!! Oh, this could be worse…..Chris’ boss, Chris’ boss's boss, and the church boss are all coming to Xela for tomorrow and the next day!! What are we (meaning Chris since I can’t help with anything!) going to do?
The nurses started to take me to my room and halfway there, they said that the kids couldn’t go any further! WHAT!! They won’t let the kids visit me in my room! I didn't even give them a kiss goodbye. What a horrible feeling. Talk about being torn though, Chris was trying to help me get situated in the room and translate for me as I am bawling my eyes out since I am so scared and at the same time all four of the kids are left by themselves in a little area of the hospital scared to death as well. While I was bawling like a baby in my little hospital room, the four kids were kneeling together in the garden area of the hospital praying. The nurses came in and told us. Talk about a humbling moment. My heart was just aching to have my kids with me!
The room that they put me in was straight out of the 1950's. The bed was not a mattress but a bunch of lumps. In order to adjust the bed, I'd have to get out of bed, go to the foot of it and reach down to turn a crank to move it up or down!! I just had to laugh! (or I'd probably start crying again!)
Notice under the 'B' the wire with a little button. That is the call button for the nurse (timbre). It reminded me of the "fish on" button that my dad rigged up from the river bank to the cabin!
The shower came complete with a little water heater shower head thing.

I never want to have to blow my nose again!!
The window is right next to a delivery drive and it was pretty noisy!
In addition to the crank bed, they use glass thermometers. Chris told me that the kids didn't know what to do with the thermometer when the nurses tried to take their temperatures.
Once we found out that the kids couldn't come in and that Chris had to decide to be with me or with them, we called the Chaneys. They are the family that works for the church here to build the temple. They came right over to the hospital and stayed with me while Chris picked up their daughter, Alora, and took her and the kids to the house. I had Chris call Lily to call Michelle to tell her that I won't be teaching this week. The next thing I know, Michelle is there to visit me! I was shocked. Chris got the kids all situated and had Alora stay the night with the kids. After a while Chris came back to the hospital to stay the night with me. It was so emotional leaving the kids!
This was where my 6'4" husband got to sleep!! Not the longest bed in the world!
Tuesday 10/06/09
The night was pretty miserable. Chris had to sleep on a little tiny couch and I was coughing the whole night. He had to get up at 5:30 and leave me in order to get home and get the kids ready for school. He took them to school, took Alora home, and then had to go to work. I have the best timing in the world and today and tomorrow just happen to be the two days that everybody is in town for the meetings at Chris' work. I was on my own but I was doing better at communicating with the nurses since I knew what kind of questions they were asking. I was able to relax a little more. (Relaxed means I wasn't bawling hysterically!)
Sister Chaney came back again and stayed most of the day with me. It was very reassuring to have somebody with me.
In addition to Sis. Chaney, I had a couple of visitors. Sully came down to see me as well as Teacher Deanna. I felt so loved! Deanna even asked the kids what my favorite candy bar was and got me one as well as a bag of jellybeans for the kids. The Twix bars were very welcomed especially after the foreign hospital food!! I've never eaten as many types of squash in my life!!
I have written a lot about the power outages here. I didn't think it would happen in the hospital though. It went out twice today and it was pretty dark in my room! Every time the power went out, it was only for a minute or so. However, the cable wouldn't turn back on when the power came back on. The T.V. we had to request and found out at check out that we had to pay $25 for it!! It didn't even work most of the time!

Chris was able to bring the kids down to the hospital and they let me go up by the waiting room to see the kids. It was so good to see them...even if they were tired. Morgan brought me a huge stack of cards that the 4th graders had made for me. After everyone left, I had to walk back to my room all by myself. It was fun to have them walk by my window and wave to me though. I put the cards up and when my doctor came to check on me she asked if I was a teacher. She wants somebody to teacher her 12 year old son. I told her that I already do too much and that's why I was in the hospital!! She later brought another doctor back to check on me as well. He listened to my heart and supposedly heard an abnormality. He wants me to get an ecocardiogram done. He told me that I could wait and do it when I get back to the states which means he's not suggesting just to get some money!
After the doctors all left, I started to settle in for the night by myself! Since the cable wasn't working, I watched a movie on the computer and went to sleep. I was surprised that I actually was able to sleep a little. Much better than the previous night!
Wednesday 10/07/09
I am feeling a little better....maybe 60%. The nurses kept asking if I had gone to the bathroom. It was probably because there was no used toilet paper in the garbage can!! I never remember that they don't flush toilet paper here! Oops!
Sis. Chaney again spent most of the day sitting with me. I also had some unexpected visitors. The president of the Relief Society, Alba, came by which completely shocked me. This is the same lady that for the longest time wouldn't even look at me!! After her there was Karen. She is the coolest person! She learned some English from a mission companion and really wants to learn more. She sang a song for me half in Spanish and half in English. It was pretty neat. She also brought me a note from the sister missionaries. After that there was Blanca and Christina. They are in the district that I just did the quilting group with as well as the choir. I am so unbelievably overwhelmed with the love that people have shown me the past couple of days. In addition to the visits, people have called Chris and coworkers of his have come by the hospital! For the sisters in the ward, most of them rode a bus to get to the hospital to visit a sick person that they can't even communicate with. How much courage and love would it take to do that. To be honest, I don't think I would have been able to do what these wonderful women did for me!! The saints here are amazing and have the true love of Christ!
I was told that I could go home today after my last dose of antibiotic through the i.v. Chris came down to pay and we were ready to leave to go pick up the kids and go home......not so fast! The cashier lady wasn't back from lunch and we couldn't pay and my i.v. wasn't done so Chris ended up leaving to get the kids. Sis. Chaney had left when Chris got there so I was once again on my own. This time it didn't go so well!! There was a bump on my wrist where the i.v. was going in and a bunch of the nurses were concerned. I wasn't in pain so they continued the 2nd bottle of the i.v. I had to go to the bathroom really bad and got up to go but my blood started going up into the i.v. I had to call the nurse using the fancy buzzer. She came in and took care of it but in the process got some big air bubbles in the tube. She left and I saw the bubbles so I started freaking out and pushing the buzzer again while trying to shut off the i.v. Nobody came until finally a lady came in to give me a business card. "Ayuda me por favor!!" That was my best attempt to say that there was a problem and to get somebody for me.....still nobody came. I had to struggle to get to the buzzer again and finally another nurse came in. She got the air bubbles out but when she started the i.v. again my "bump" that the previous nurses were concerned about got huge and hurt. She kept saying stuff to me that I didn't understand and yes, I was bawling uncontrollably again. I couldn't get Chris to answer his phone to help me either (come to find out that his phone isn't working again!!) The nurse finally shut off the i.v. and just left. I finally got ahold of Lily who Chris had picked up with the kids and she said they'd all come down there rather than have Chris take them out to the house. When they got there, we had to ask somebody to come in and figure out what was going on. The nurse that had walked out thought I was crying out of extreme pain and so she was going to get the doctors approval to start a different i.v. The lady just couldn't get the i.v. started right. Another nurse (the head nurses wear the old nurse outfits with the white skirt, shirt, and little hat! It was great) came in and figured out that my hand position just needed to be adjusted and got the i.v. going again and I was back to normal. What an emotional ordeal though. I never ever ever want to have to go through that again.
1/2 an hour later the i.v. was done and I was able to get dressed and go home. I was so excited to take a shower!!
On the way home we stopped and got my prescriptions. I can not believe how much money we have spent on medicine between the 4 kids and myself! Hey, if it makes us feel better, I'll pay it any day!
Once settled at home, Chris had to go back to work. He took Cole with him and left Laina asleep, and Morgan and Alysa watching a movie. I had the most miserable headache so I laid down. Laina woke up a while later and ended up in the bathroom with diarhea. After that I told her to go get her pajamas and she managed to cover her entire bedroom floor in throw up! WELCOME HOME!! When I tried to put her in the tub, I also noticed that she had red bumps on her chest and back. After the bath and the clean up, she managed to throw up two more times on her floor. Fun times! Seriously, what else is in store for us?

Cole at the job site.
The dad of one of my students is an importer from the U.S. His last trip up, he got some Dr. Pepper for Chris. Chris was able to go pick it up at their house on his way back to work. I think he desperately needed that to help make up for the crazy week that he has had! I do have a great husband that amazes me all the time. He has really had his hands full this week. I just hope he doesn't end up in the hospital!
Thursday 10/08/09
The alarm clock went off this morning and I didn't even move. I was so tired and did not want to get out of bed. Chris got up and got the kids all ready for school and I didn't even help. Laina didn't go to school but instead she was given the job of taking care of me for the day. She was pretty cute about it. We had fun watching Barbie movies and eating Cup 'O Noodles together. We laid on the couch and took it easy. I am still feeling really weak and tired and I am doing my best to force myself to stay down so that I don't relapse. The medicine is still making me cough to clear my lungs out and that in turn is giving me huge headaches and some very sore ribs. The pain has gone to both sides of my body now! I really need to kick this crud before our trip! (16 more days!!)
I was paranoid all day that the R.S. president was going to come by and I would have to concentrate to talk with her. My poor head is just fried and I wasn't up for it today. Luckily she didn't! Not that I didn't want her to visit my head just wasn't up for it!
Chris brought kids home from school, made them lunch then headed back to work. The kids and I were able to hang out for the afternoon. There was limited coughing and limited fighting!! YEAH!!
To make it even better, Chris went to the grocery store for me and Morgan made dinner. She was pretty proud of herself.